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WOW! I guess I never realized others were dealing with this problem. I thought it was just me.
Thank you for the information. I just ordered it.

I read the reviews and want to post part of one that I can so relate to because the time I talked to my daughter she brought up this matter of unconditional love, that no matter what she did as a mother, if I was normal, I would have unconditional love for her.

"“mothers should love unconditionally”, I would suggest that all of these mothers continue to love their children unconditionally, but this doesn’t mean they should tolerate unconditional abuse by their adult children. In most cases, the adult children were disrespectful, even cruel, leading to discard. It is a mother’s nature to react to the cruelty, it is a mother’s nature to tolerate way too much from her adult children, I would suggest that mothers are martyring themselves way too much. "

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You will amazed when you read these books. Do the exercises and you will realize patterns in your own families you never saw before. These books are masterful. JMHO