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Thanks Lori.

Some days are just so much harder than others as I am sure everyone knows. Idle hands are the devils workshop or whatever they say. My business is a little slow right now and that is never a good thing for me.

And, once you put that in writing, I feel like an idiot!

I started somewhat of a "Workbook" with all of the links and recommendations from you and others here and have been referring back to it frequently. I appreciate all of your time and what you do and will seriously try not to inundate this feed with things that may sound silly to even think of.

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Oh my goodness Joee. You are not an idiot and you’re not inundating this feed with silly things! This is a huge life event for your husband and you!! Knowledge is power and asking is a way to learn what you need to help your husband!
I’m just wanting to make sure you don’t get lured down some rabbit hole that’s going to take you in directions where you don’t need to go! Ok? ☺️ I have your back…WE have your back so don’t hesitate to ask anything.

Oh you said it though, with idle hands are the devil’s workshop! Distractions are important. I hope business picks up but if not, do you have hobbies and other things that keep you occupied?

Hi!
I have a friend, who is well meaning, but keeps sending me the untested cures for cancer. I thank him and then move on. I am not going down any rabbit holes. Our minds are so overwhelmed when we get the cancer diagnosis. Navigating treatment options and further diagnosis adds to the stress. Just ignore the rest.

Good morning, Joee. I know this is the big day for Tim to meet with the hematologist. I know you’re nervous about this appointment, but remember, this is a good thing. You’ve been waiting for answers quite a while so today should bring some resolution.
You have quite a lot of us concerned about Tim (and you!) so we’ll be here to listen after the appointment as well. Don’t forget your notebook! ☺️ Wishing only good news today! Hugs