It's great that you're being deliberate about reaching an acceptable diagnosis. It can be frustrating to hear conflicting opinions from the docs!

I had L2-5 decompression and fusion surgery last May '23. I'm a 70 yo male in better-than-average physical condition. I had managed my back/leg discomfort for literally decades with exercise, over-the-counter meds, and caution regarding not doing too much (like heavy lifting, twisting, and such). I had the firm opinion I would not endure the disruptions and unknowns of spinal surgery until I felt I had no other option.

What made the decision for me was when I started to experience what I called "sudden leg numbness" where I would go from fine to totally numb legs in literally 60 seconds. When it hit - I had to sit down immediately or I'd fall down. I grew concerned that the numbness might suddenly develop when I was in a precarious situation...like at the top of the stairs. I sought multiple opinions until I was comfortable that I had: The best facility with the best diagnostic equipment with the best docs for my case.

I am nine+ months post lumbar surgery and am 90%+ of the way back to normal. The journey has been a challenge at times but I'm glad I'm where I am now.

Are you experiencing balance issues such that you feel you might fall? How often do you get that feeling?