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Does anyone feel old and useless with age?

Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Mar 22 4:21pm | Replies (192)

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The issue of growing older is a very debatable subject…I have been thinking a lot about this and I came to the conclusion that it’s very different for everyone, so many things play into this stage of our lives. In older days when I was a youngster we always had family and friends around, if a family member was ill or they lost their job, everyone automatically helped them out. As for seniors, they didn’t go into a home but rather they moved in with their children. It was always the way things were done and everyone got lots of love and attention. In the world we live in today it goes without saying is so very changed and in some ways it’s better but not when it comes to family. As seniors we probably feel it the most because we need so much more care and there’s the problem, young people want so much more and they are working long hours to try to stay on top of everything, they want more and more all the time. I think the first to be handled over to get help with were our children, we just didn’t have enough time and keep us with the rising cost of living. As women we were forced to leave the home and go to work, this is in my opinion when everything started to change. I’m curious how it will eventually work itself out, putting seniors in assisted living is more expensive like everything else and not many people can afford to do this, not to mention it’s so very sad that they have to live out their final days in a clinical environment, no thanks for all the years they invested in their families.

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The stark reality is that the world we have now IS different than what it was before, this is not new, it's been always so tho now at more quicker pace.

The question really is: How do we live the 'Optimal life' we can have with the present choices and constraints, which you've spelled out: "As seniors we probably feel it the most because we need so much more care and there’s the problem, young people want so much more and they are working long hours to try to stay on top of everything, they want more and more all the time."

Almost every week there are talks on this issue on CBC radio in Canada that bemoans this issue: Too many patients; too few caretakers, who often so exasperated and mistreated so much so that they'd rather just retire making the system go in a slow blow up!

I, for one, feels I should stay out of the universal/free healthcare that Canada provides, but ALSO makes people 'OverDepend' on the system. Sort of freebie that renders people Less Caring about their Own health matters. Maybe I'm wrong but we are complex beings -- and act in ways not easily foreseeable.

But back to the issue: we Do Need a way to mitigate the current situation; If family is not around anymore, WE need to find a way to Die Better. Scarce info on this subject even on the internet, even tho it's a global issue at least in the affluent world, but not even ideas?

Maybe the Olds ALone need to get on it.