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@navypatriot2024 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. Finding purpose in where we are in our lives is so important. It can be different for each of us, and it really sounds like you have figured out what brings value to you!
Thank you for sharing your story.
Ginger
@navypatriot2024
I love your story. When your identity revolved around your job / career and that is gone due to age, disability, retirement, layoffs, etc… an import of you is gone.
I was workaholic, so limited social activities and no hobbies, never had time. Even when I retired, still found myself looking at job sites because felt I should be working.
Took long time (and depression) to finally shift my focus, accept that there is life after my career and do something about.
I look for local social activities I can attend by myself, attend lot of lecture to continue learning, volunteer at local hospital, participate in Mayo Connect , help older neighbors and other misc things that keeps me from isolation.
The "high" I got from my career is replaced by a smile when can help someone else.
Thank you for what you're doing for veterans.
Laurie