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Tue, May 5 9:13pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

I wake up in the middle of the night and think about what to say in the letter…while I’m in the shower…sitting on the porch…why haven’t I done it yet…his life is on the line and I’m not doing anything….I got his glasses today but I’m scared to call to ask how to get them to him….it hurts when I call and they won’t tlk to me abt him..but it’s my life now and I have to deal with it….I started the letter ….. thank you Becky….I’m working on believing in myself…..best wishes to you and your family….sending love and prayers to everyone

Tue, May 5 9:05pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

He granted them guardianship March 27th….

Mon, May 4 3:01pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

Thank you for your kindness. I hired someone but I feel like we are alone. I’m preparing to write the judge. The next hearing is in June. I’m trying to make progress. I pray that all is well with you. It’s a struggle to even move…but I’m holding it together because my kids have lost their father during this crisis….thank you sincerely

Mon, May 4 2:55pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

Hello Jane….my prayers to you and your family…I’m sorry that you are going through this…I’m trusting in the LORD during these difficult times

Mon, May 4 2:50pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

Hi Becky…this situation has shown me that I’m nobody. He has now been transferred to a long term acute care facility. I was able to do a FaceTime with him when he first arrived there before they set up his password. I don’t know if it was good that I did because he looked so lost, so different than how he was when I was with him. When I called back the next day, a different nurse asked me if I was the wife and I told her yes, she said we can’t talk to you and hung up. I hired an attorney the day of the hearing on March 27th but I don’t think I hired the right one. A national advocate recommended him but after I told her some of his remarks she said I shouldn’t have. He has relatives affiliated with the hospital that we wanted to be transferred from. He made me aware of that before I hired him so it was my mistake. You can ask me anything . I have to write a letter to the judge in response to the false statements that were made in the petition ….nikki

Mon, May 4 2:42pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

Hi Becky, thank you for your support and I pray all is well. The daughters were hostile from the beginning. The oldest came in his room and pushed me while he was on the ventilator and threatened to have me killed because he and I wanted to transfer. Then another one was yelling in his room to the point where he had to ask her to leave three times. I tried to ask her to calm dwn and she told me that he and her argued and it wasn’t about me. But he’s on a respirator…he can’t argue? I tried to work with them but they all had a issue with me even asking the physicians questions regarding his care. I had to call for security and eventually stop their visits because of their aggression.

Mon, May 4 2:35pm · COVID-19: What does it mean for people in ICU and for families? in Intensive Care (ICU)

Hi Linda…I pray that all is well for you and your family and thank you and everyone here for your prayers. My husbands ex wife has constantly caused problems for the seven years that we’ve been together, but after we were married last year things got worse and he stopped communicating with her and her daughters…he changed his telephone number and did what he felt was necessary to avoid them. They were fighting to keep him at the facility tht he was being abused in and won because I was focused on getting him out of there and not on the petition they filed for guardianship…they listed all of his assets. His assets were and are my least concern. I just wanted him to be okay…it has been a nightmare that we couldn’t get out of. I’ve been trying to pray for them but honestly it’s hard. They told so many lies on me along with his two sisters that dnt even know me…I couldn’t even read the petition because it was so upsetting. I’m so disappointed that I was so weak at the time when he needed me most…. nikki