I am writing on behalf of my mother who has been recently diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and liver mets. The surgeons have told her she is not a sugery candidate and have pretty much written her off with their poor bedside manner. She is scared as am I. I have been up day and night trying to navigate information of treatments and personal care (diet, mind, spirit) to deal with this. How does one maintain a positive attitude consistantly? I find that I am good one minute then there are times where i crumble. But I am prepared to push on and do whatever I can. I am a new mom to an 8 month baby girl and all my mom wants is to see her grow up. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you kindly.