Triplets! You are a super hero! I have 4. My kids are 7, 9, 13, and 17. My oldest has ADHD, diagnosed at 7, been processed food and low sugar ever since., Luckily, we've got experience with the run around of diagnosis. Yes, when our son first started sleeping 15 hours, he'd be awake from 1-5 am. I'd get up with him and feed him as much as I could and the wake up at 6 to get the rest of the kids to school. I think it was hardest on my 9 year old. She's very close to her brother and he'd be asleep when she left for school, got home, and went to bed. She really missed him and really shut down. I have them in art therapy together now because by the time he was out of episode, she was mad at him and felt abandoned. The older kids were concerned and had a better grasp of what was going on. It's definitely affected the whole family. I think in general we are closer now. My oldest had planned to go out of state to college and now he wants to stay closer to home.