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Tue, Jun 23 8:58am · The Power of Words in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

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Words can be powerful. Sometimes, a quote, a poem or a passage can touch our hearts and express what we are feeling. It reminds us that we are not alone.

The right words can help us to overcome fears, inspire hope, make us laugh or be the impetus for changing our outlook.

A few simple words can open the way to finding peace or even joy in the present moment, despite what is happening in our lives.

I would like to share some quotes that have lifted my spirits.

 

Gratitude and Acceptance

 

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.”

―Melody Beattie

 

“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”

―Joseph Campbell

 

“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew that if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be in prison.”

― Nelson Mandela

 

“We can complain because rose bushes have thorns or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
―Alphonse Karr

 

“We would give anything for what we have.”

―Tony Hoagland

Worry  

 

“Worry is like a rocking chair: it gives you something to do but never gets you anywhere.”

―Erma Bombeck

 

“Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace.”
―Randy Armstrong

 

“Don’t believe everything you think.”
―Thomas E. Kida

 

“I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.”

―Mark Twain

 

“The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”

―William James

 

“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”

―Attributed to John Lennon and Brazilian writer Fernando Sabino

 

 Relationships

 

“Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true.”

―Robert Brault

 

“Would you rather be right or happy?”

―A Course in Miracles

 

“Resentment is letting someone else use your mind rent-free.”

―Wayne Dyer

 

The secret of relationships is the same as living in California: Don’t dwell on the faults.”

―Jay Trachman

 

You may wish to keep some inspirational quotes handy, so you can read them whenever you feel the need to brighten your day.

 

Please share some of your own favorite quotes that have comforted you, inspired you or reminded you what is really important.

 

Tue, Feb 11 3:25pm · Sitting is the New Smoking in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

Couch PotatoWhen you think about the dangers in your life, you probably don’t think about sitting. Being a “couch potato” seems innocuous, but according to health experts, prolonged periods of sitting have been linked to serious health problems.

Dr. James Levine, a professor of medicine at the Mayo Clinic, coined the phrase “Sitting is the new smoking”. Any extended sitting —in a car, at a computer or in front of a screen — can be harmful.

Research has documented that sitting for long periods of time is associated with a higher risk of heart disease, cancer, diabetes, depression and anxiety. Studies have found decreased hip mobility is one of the main reasons that older people tend to fall. Chronic sitters have tight hip flexor muscles and weakening of the legs.

In addition, researchers from UCLA discovered that adults without dementia who spent more time sitting in the day had greater thinning of an area of the brain that is important for making memories (medial temporal lobe).

Exercise is not enough!

Research shows that although exercise is very positive it doesn’t negate the damage done by extended periods of sitting. Cardiology experts reviewing evidence in the journal Circulation say “no amount of physical activity is enough to combat the dangerous health effects of sitting for hours each day.”

The cure for the negative effects of sitting isn’t exercising more. It’s sitting less. Of course, this doesn’t mean that regular exercise is unimportant for your health. Rather, it is important to do both regular exercise and reduce sitting time.

What else can you do?

Research demonstrates that interrupting bouts of sitting is an important way to improve health.

Some tips include:

  • Five minutes of standing activities (walking the dog, folding laundry or taking out the trash) for every hour of sitting is sufficient to combat sedentary behavior.
  • Set alarms on your phone to remind you to stand up and move every hour.
  • Walk around while talking on your phone.
  • Stand up during television ads and walk around the room.
  • A short walk (10 minutes) after each meal reduces the risk of type 2 diabetes.
  • Take the stairs when that is an option.

One simple lifestyle change: reducing the time you spend sitting is the key to a dramatic difference to your physical and mental health. You have the key!

Dec 8, 2019 · Gratitude Discussion Group in Just Want to Talk

Beautiful video. Thanks for posting.

Apr 23, 2019 · Laughter is the Best Medicine in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

Laughing Mother and DaughterIt turns out there is scientific evidence for this saying.

Laughter decreases stress, improves your mood, and makes you more resilient. Laughter is also good for your relationships. Laughter serves as a powerful tool and safety valve for dealing with conflict and reducing tension when emotions are running high.

Here are some of the scientific benefits of laughter and humor. Laughter can:

  • Relieve pain. Laughter causes the body to produce its own natural painkillers.
  • Improve your mood and decrease depression and anxiety. Laughing with others releases endorphins, natural substances that make you feel better and happier. Laughter can lessen depression and anxiety.
  • Brings people closer together. Laughter binds people together. It’s contagious. Couples who laugh together report having better relationships.
  • New perspective. Studies show that our response to stressful events can be altered by whether we view something as a threat or a challenge. Humor can give us a new perspective and help us view the situation as a challenge and thus less threatening. It can help one reframe a problem.
  • Reduce tension and cortisol. A hearty laugh stimulates circulation and muscle relaxation. This helps reduce the physical symptoms of stress. According to Professor Sophie Scott, a neuroscientist at University College, London who studies laughter…”laughter can decrease the body’s production of cortisol, a hormone released by the adrenal glands into the bloodstream at times of stress. High levels of cortisol have been linked to weight gain and memory loss.”
  • Improve your immune system. “Negative thoughts manifest into chemical reactions that can affect your body by bringing more stress into your system and decreasing your immunity. By contrast, positive thoughts can actually release neuropeptides that help fight stress and potentially more–serious illnesses.”(Mayoclinic.org)
  • Increase resilience. A sense of humor can help one bounce back from adversity. Laughing at our mistakes helps us to recognize making errors is part of life.

Ways to bring humor and laughter into your daily life

  • Find items that make you smile or chuckle. Read the daily comic strips or read online joke websites. Place or hang items, such as comic strips, photos or greeting cards in your home or office. Make a list of comedies, funny books or online videos to have on hand when you need a boost of humor. Listen to your favorite comedian. Frame photos of you and your family or friends having fun.
  • Share laughter with friends. Spend time with people who make you laugh and are fun people. Browse through joke books or online jokes and find jokes to share with friends.
  • Focus on finding laughable moments in your day. Look for the humor in difficult situations. Find a way to laugh about your situation and notice the decrease of tension in your body.
  • Consider Laughter Yoga classes. In “laughter yoga” people practice laughter as a group. It feels awkward at first, but soon the laughter becomes spontaneous and contagious.

   Caution!

  • Know what is not funny. Some forms of humor are inappropriate. Never laugh at the expense of others– laugh with people– not at people.

   Prescription 

  • Laugh at least once a day. You cannot overdose. I invite you to try. Smile- it’s the beginning of laughter. Think of something funny. Give a laugh even if it feels unnatural. Notice how you feel.

 

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.” Phyllis Diller

 

You don’t stop laughing because you grow older. You grow older because you stop laughing.” Maurice Chevalier

Dec 3, 2018 · Gratitude Changes Everything in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

Doris thank for your kind words. It warms my heart to hear that you were able to use the techniques. Hope your dear Mom is doing better.

Dec 3, 2018 · Gratitude Changes Everything in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

Debbra thank you for your kind comments. I look forward to hearing about your experiences.

Nov 20, 2018 · Gratitude Changes Everything in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

Give Thanks

Would having Thanksgiving every day improve our health? Yes. But this doesn’t mean heaping our plates full of turkey, gravy, stuffing and pie daily. It means being grateful every day.

One of the special things about Thanksgiving is expressing our gratitude. The holiday reminds us to pause, reflect and see the blessings in our lives.

Can we be grateful every day even when we feel overwhelmed or when upsetting events occur? Yes. That’s when you need an extra dose of gratitude that can give you a new perspective.

Gratitude is an attitude – a sense of appreciation for the gifts in our life. Research shows that practicing gratitude can make you healthier and happier. It improves sleep, boosts immunity and improves relationships. Focusing on blessings can help ward off depression and build resilience in times of stress and grief. While we can’t always choose what happens to us, we can choose how we feel about it.

Some techniques to help you to build your sense of gratitude:

  • Start The Day With Gratitude. As soon as you wake up, before you get out of bed, practice gratitude. Take a few deep breaths and think about three people in your life that you are grateful for. While breathing in slowly and deeply, visualize the first person. Then send him or her your silent gratitude as you breathe out. Repeat the exercise with each person. To remind you to do this practice, write a sticky note with the word “Gratitude” on it and post it in your bathroom or put it in your calendar.
  • Keep A Gratitude Journal. Studies suggest that writing in a gratitude journal one to three times per week might actually have a greater impact on our happiness than journaling every day. Write down three things for which you feel grateful. The things you list can be relatively small in importance, such as someone opening the door for you or feeling a breeze on your face. The goal of the exercise is to remember a good event, experience or people in your life—then savor the positive emotions that come with it. Write down how these events made you feel at the time and how this event makes you feel now.
  • Count Your Blessings, Not Sheep. Before going to sleep or if you awaken during the night and can’t sleep, review the things you have done that day and the people in your life and look for moments that make you realize how fortunate you are.

“Look closely and you will find that people are happy because they are grateful. The opposite of gratefulness is just taking everything for granted…The root of joy is gratefulness…It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.” David Steindal-Rast (Benedictine Monk)

 

Meet others talking about how they incorporate gratitude into daily life in the gratitude discussion.

Jun 26, 2018 · Happiness in Living with Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

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We all want to be “happy” but what does that actually mean and what can we do in our daily lives to be happier? Fortunately, researchers have begun to understand what really helps us to be happier and more resilient to life’s challenges.

Sonja Lyubomirsky, a researcher in the field of positive psychology, describes happiness in her 2007 book, The How of Happiness, as “the experience of joy, contentment, or positive well-being, combined with a sense that one’s life is good, meaningful, and worthwhile.”

How to find happiness

According to Mayoclinic.org  “Only a small percentage of the variation in people’s reports of happiness can be explained by differences in their circumstances. It appears that the bulk of what determines happiness is due to personality and—more importantly—thoughts and behaviors that can be changed.”

The good news is that your actions and thoughts can influence your level of happiness. Below are practical activities drawn from scientific studies. Note that all of these take regular practice to be effective:

  • Gratitude
  • Social connection
  • Compassion
  • Feeling a sense of purpose
  • Living in the moment or mindfulness

Gratitude

Gratitude is an attitude – a sense of wonder and appreciation for the gifts in your life. Research shows that practicing gratitude can make you healthier and happier. Focusing on blessings can help ward off depression and build resilience in times of stress and grief.

Here are some techniques to help you to build your sense of gratitude:

  • Keep a gratitude journal. Each day write down three things that went well for you. Provide an explanation of why you think it went well. How did this made you feel?
  • Count your blessings– not sheep– before you go to sleep.
  • Review the things you have done that day and the people in your life and feel a sense of gratitude.
  • Try a short gratitude meditation exercise by Dr. Amit Sood, a Mayo Clinic expert on happiness: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0M-TLhGKgwA

Social connection

Our connection with other people is basic to our happiness. Meaningful relationships boost happiness, cognitive abilities and health.

  • Nurture your relationships with friends and family. Express your appreciation to them for the things that you may take for granted. Try to listen to what they have to say without making judgments.

Compassion

Compassion is a strong feeling of sympathy and sadness for other people’s suffering and a desire to help.

Research shows that we are born with an inherent sense of compassion that is essential for bonding and connecting with others.

Giving or receiving compassion helps you enjoy better mental and physical health.

Here are some techniques to enhance your compassion:

  • Try daily to practice random acts of kindness, for example:
    • Let someone go ahead of you in the checkout line or in traffic.
    • Take time to really listen to someone.
    • Give a sincere compliment.
  • Be compassionate to yourself. This is not self-pity. You’re simply recognizing that “this is tough, this hurts.” Give the same warmhearted compassion to yourself as you would to any friend grappling with the same challenge. Studies have shown that self-compassion has many benefits including lowering stress and increasing resilience.

Feeling a sense of purpose

Studies show that having a sense of purpose enhances happiness.

  • Make a list of activities that bring meaning to your life. Try to do one activity each day.
  • Find meaningful use of your talents through volunteer opportunities
  • Join an organization with a cause you find important.

Living in the moment or mindfulness

·         Focus on the present moment. When not in the present, the mind wanders and tends to ruminate on negative thoughts.

·         Accept your emotions. It is vital to have an emotional balance. One cannot experience happiness at the expense of avoiding other important emotions, such as fear, sadness, anger or guilt. Accepting these emotions as a part of life help us live a healthier emotional life.

·         Look for opportunities to savor the pleasures of everyday life.

·         Spend time in nature.

Invest in your happiness today by trying at least one of the techniques.  Comment below to let others know how these techniques work for you.