Talking Frankly about Living with Advanced Cancer
Are you living with advanced cancer (sometimes referred to as stage 4 or metastatic cancer)?
This discussion is a safe space where you can connect with others to talk about the realities of living with limited time. It's not easy to find people who understand what it is like. For many reasons, you may not feel comfortable talking about your thoughts and emotions with friends or family. Perhaps you are alone. Even if you are surrounded by people who support you, you may experience intense loneliness.
Connect is a place where honest conversation can safely take place. You can speak frankly and be heard without judgement. I invite you to share your reality facing death and living now.
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about a year ago I had a baseball size meningioma removed from my brain. Unfortunately, it turned out to be Grade 3 malignant, which is very rare. Now I'm on every 4 months MRI to watch for recurrence. I just had MRI and am waiting to see results next week. I'm considering what I will do if there is regrowth. The original tumor was found when my husband forced me to go to the ER, where they discovered it on an MRI. The NS said it needed to come out right away, and it did, 4 days later. Then 6 weeks of daily radiation treatment. So my husband is very proud of having "saved my life". The problem is, I haven't done or experienced anything in the last year that I would have missed if I had died. I have no children or other family except my husband, who is toxic to be around all day. I don't like my life the way it is, and if this MRI isn't good, I may decide to refuse more surgery and let it take its course. My tumor is so rare that there is no information on survival rates, how long that takes, and what that time would look like. I guess I need to find a counselor I could talk to
@fmh1 I just saw your post. I have posted elsewhere here about my melanoma story, the upshot of which is that I was just diagnosed with it being metastatic (originally on scalp, now in neck lymph node(s)).
I just watched a video of Dr Seyfried on Youtube (only a few weeks old) where he explains his theory. I am going to try and find out if there is a way to find a doctor near me (greater Tampa Bay) that would implement his protocols.
Were you able to find anyone? I know that the FDA and Big Pharma have pretty much closed down all alternate theories and treatments, so I am guessing it will be pretty hard to find a doctor.
I wish you well!
Hello
I wanted check on you see that how are you doing.
Can you give update on your condition?
Thanks
Hola buenas noches, en agosto de este año, me mandaron hacer una gramagrafia osea, la cual indica que no tengo metastasis.
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Buenas noches , el diagnóstico fue en agosto de este año, me mandaron hacer una gramagrafia osea , la cual indica que no tengo metastasis en los huesos.
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@lale2872 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect.
I am including a link here to go to a Prostrate Cancer discussion on getting help. When were you diagnosed with your prostrate cancer?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/prostate-cancer-getting-help-questions-answered/
Ginger
Hola soy nuevo tengo 50 años y tengo cáncer de próstata avanzado con Gleason (4+5)9, estoy muy preocupado por saber que me espera
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@ta8, how are you doing? You mention that you are concerned that she doesn't appear to be scared about your diagnosis. May I ask how old your daughter is? Is she your main caregiver?
@clayesq Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I see you joined us a while ago and this is your first post. Being scared and uncertain is an awkward way to live each day, isn't it?
Like many of us here, I am a cancer patient. Malignant melanoma on my right forearm was removed 12/31/2008. In addition, I have had many squamous cell carcinomas surgically removed by MOHS procedures. Beyond that, I am a blood cancer patient currently on chemo, and a dialysis warrior with failing kidneys.
You ask what you are supposed to be doing to live with melanoma. My experience and thoughts: get your full body skin checks every six months or more often if you notice something. Wear sunscreen everyday. Minimize your risks. Live your life looking forward, planning your next great adventure. If you are still working [I noticed the JD in your profile], make it meaningful. Eat healthy but leave room for a binge. Exercise in moderation. Be grateful for the little things, and profoundly thankful for the big things. Smile, and project that to others. Make a difference.
What will you do with today?
Ginger
hello, all...
New to the group. I have been living with melanoma since 2014, and last year progressed to Stage IV. Currently NED, with clean scans since July '21, but perpetually scared and uncertain as to what I am supposed to be doing to live with this disease... so, hello! 🙂