Redundant colon has dropped. What options for relief?

I am an 83 yr old active woman who has a reduntant colon and it has dropped down and pulled down more of my body. I have all the problems of redundant colon except vomiting. I eat small meals and can use advise about that ...My dr says Im too old for surgery and all the other Gastro doctors wont even call me back. it is very uncomfortable and wonder if I should consider surgery or if there is any other way to relief this discomfort.