Pre-surgical kegels: Six sets vs. three sets
Two Kegel questions for pre-surgical preparation about five weeks ahead of the big day.
Question One; I find the fast twitch, short kegels easy to do. But, doing the longer, 10 second kegels are much harder to do on the front side. How long can you actually pull your penis in for? I can't do it for very long right now.
Question Two: What has everyone has found to be the best protocol for pre-surgical kegel routines. The standard sounds like three sets...but I found a well structured study that shows six sets leads to much better results later.
There's lots of info out there about how to do kegels. Also, lots of info on starting gentle and gradually building so as not to over-exert. My doc recommended three sets of 10 slow and 10 fast per day. But, then I saw this 2018 study that showed the men who did six sets a day standing up had much better continence results at 12 weeks post surgery.
The study seems really well structured showing a huge improvement of doing six sets of slow/fast twich sets vs. the group that just did three sets of slow kegels per day.
Here's the study: Pelvic floor muscle training in radical prostatectomy: a randomized controlled trial of the impacts on pelvic floor muscle function and urinary incontinence.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31729959/
My takeaways:
• Do all your kegels standing because leakage later is usually related to standing.
• The increased number of sets at six showed much better continence QOL at 12 weeks post surgery than the three sets group.
Does this sound about right?
More about the study:
• Protocol for the intervention group was: Six sets of kegel exercises per day. Each set comprising 10 fast (1 s duration) and 10 slow (10 seconds duration) contractions with an equal rest time of 10 second providing a total of 120 contractions per day.
vs. the standard protocol of three sets of PFM exercises per day, with 10 contractions per set, aiming to hold for a duration of 10 s, with an equal rest time, providing a total of 30 contractions per day, each set performed once each, in supine, sitting, then standing, in accordance with previously reported interventions.
The improvement for the six set group seemed huge concerning regaining continence and QOL. One key difference is the control group did not do the fast twitch kegel sequence.
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I'm not a medical professional nor an expert on Kegels, but that's the program I followed. I had NS RARP at 70 about 21 months ago. I did 10 reps of 10 second holding slow Kegels, and then 10 reps of fast Kegels. I tried to do about 6 sets a day. It took me some effort to learn to do them and to build up to being able to hold them while breathing. At this point, the slow ones I do about 70% of max, while the fast ones are closer to max. I started doing them reclining, and as I got better I went to standing. I used Michelle Conway video's on youtube and found her instructions useful for me. I had the opportunity to do them for 3 weeks before surgery and picked them up again after surgery when the care team told me I could resume. I really don't know how much they helped, but I think they helped. I was never incontinent after surgery, other than minor releases as I figured out the new normal. I think the skill of the surgeon was the most important factor by far, but I do think the Kegels helped. Even though I was continent, when I asked the surgeon how long to keep doing them (at about a year after surgery), his response was keep doing them at some level to maintain my pelvic floor strength. So I continue to this day, 1 or 2 sets a day. Best wishes.
Here's one of Michelle Conways videos I liked: https://www.youtube.com/watch
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1 ReactionI have two apparently-contradictory pieces of general advice based on my own physio rehab from hospital bed to wheelchair to walking:
1. Don't overtrain.
2. If one movement is harder than the others, you've successfully identified the muscles that need the most work.
Consider lots of short sets on the front kegels, with long recovery breaks. Don't overtire them, but maybe do 5 extra stealthy front kegels + 10 sec holds once in a while when you're sitting at your desk, watching TV, etc., until the motion (including holding) becomes easy.
Best of luck!
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3 ReactionsI think in the end just make sure you do them prior. Doc's will be in there rooting around damaging and removing tissue so there could be some trauma which tends to shut muscles down as "they" protect themselves. Once you are healed enough to start back you can do them anywhere, even while standing in line at the grocery store.
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2 Reactions@retireditguy Thanks so much for all that info! Incredibly helpful.
I'm glad to know that your slow kegels are at 70 percent of max.....I'd say I can only do quick holds right now and the long holds are a big challenge right now.
I'll try that tip on starting out doing them reclining.
Amazing that you had such great continence results. I agree, a big part has to be the skill of the surgeon and how much surrounding tissue they could save in your case. But, I bet those kegels helped.
After continence, keep doing them-that seems like solid advice....where I think most folks would just move on. I've got the Easy Kegel app, so if the day comes that I'm on the other side after surgery, I'll keep that app reminder going.
Video link didn't work, but I found her page.
Thanks so much and congrats on your outcome!!
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1 Reaction@northoftheborder
That's amazing advice...had not thought of doing more short sets with longer recovery breaks.
Yeah, I could see overdoing the long ones too early.
Thanks so much!!
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1 Reaction@chippydoo Thanks for that reality check. I was told that it's much easier to learn how to do them properly before surgery because after, the sensation and muscles won't respond properly for a while.
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1 Reaction@fritzo I would agree with that assessment. Best wishes with your outcome.