Mastectomy and breast reconstruction pros and cons?
Being treated for breast cancer, having a mastectomy and was wondering what people did for reconstruction?
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Being treated for breast cancer, having a mastectomy and was wondering what people did for reconstruction?
Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Breast Cancer Support Group.
I had both breasts removed (one at a time, my doc wanted to see how I did with the surgery). I am flat and actually don't mind at all. I don't wear any prosthesis or padding. Clothes look fine on me I think.
My doc and nurse practitioner kept saying I needed to think about how I would feel losing my breasts. I feel like it was harder than it should be for THEM to accept it was okay. I had no qualms.
It is a personal decision but my surgeries were pretty easy. Also I had a paravertebral block so I didn't need pain meds, which make me sick.
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1 ReactionI cannot tell you what either surgery is like, only that I really wanted a mastectomy with no reconstruction. My local surgeon refused and 17 years ago I was not savvy enough to fight for what I wanted and I believe that surgeon thought he was giving me the right choice of a partial mastectomy. My grandmother had a Halstead mastectomy back in the day and she wore a prosthetic so she would look balanced but she never regretted them being gone.
I met a woman who had a bilateral in her 60s and got tattoos that were floral and beautiful on her chest. I don’t feel like we have to be reconstructed, especially if you are traumatized by the thought. Cancer shouldn’t have angst over this on top of everything else. Have you discussed this with family? Significant other/spouse?
Thank you for the info on decision making. I am 70 and considered a good candidate for reconstuction by the surgeons The plastic surgeon showed realistic pics of the procedure and it was traumatizing to me! I am now reconsidering my choice as I have become quite anxious about having 2 surgeries mastectomy and abdominal tissue reconstruction at the same time 6 hours. Surgeon also gave me the silicone implant to hold and feel as another choice. It seemed quite heavy and I feel it would feel like a foreign object and be irritating.
Now I am thinking I can't handle this and will just have the mastectomy, get it done and get rid of the cancer and accept this amputation as it is, but I am not wanting to have regrets either.
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In my area, they offered intraoperative radiation that would be a one-time only radiation treatment. If they have that in your area, please check into it. Sadly for me, my lymph nodes had eroded into the lymphatic system so I was awarded with 30 radiation treatments. However, the personnel there and doctors were so very supportive and it was over before I knew it.
I will be having 3 weeks of radiation since my tumor is over 5 centimeters. If they find any cancer in the lymph nodes however, the radiation will be increased to 5 weeks.
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1 ReactionThank you so much for your reply.
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1 ReactionHi, My tumor is grade 1 ER+/PR+/HER2- invasive lobular carcinoma.
I went to Morristown Medical Center in New Jersey. It’s not the hospital that’s good it’s the doctors. I just love mine!
thank you sandy that is great info!!! Where did you go for your surgery
thank you for feedback