Lobular Breast Cancer: Let's share and support each other

New to journey. 9.29.22 i went for annual mammogram. I have elected for 3d since it became available (about 5 yrs) as my grandmother passed from ovarian cancer.. because of her i fought for annual mammogram since I was 36. On 10.12 22 I was diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Carcinoma and Invasive Lobular Carcinoma in Situ in my right breast. I am 59 1/2 and post menopausal for 7 yrs. I had lumpectomy on 11.1.22 . The surgeon believes between needle byops and his magic that they got it all. Took 1st lymph and did not find spread. Now waiting for my 1st medical oncologist and 1st radiologist appt on 12.7 22 and 12.9.22 repetitively. I am worried about all of it. I have an extremely stressful job and am sole bread winner. On top of it, my significant is having heart issues (63 yrs old). How did any of you do during treatments keeping up with all the obligations in life? Am I freaking out for nothing? I could of retired 1.1.23, but not now. Cant afford it..oh yeah besides breast cancer..having to have all top teeth pulled (today) for dentures....just feel like the wheels are coming off the bus..

May I ask what your "treatments" were? I had a lumpectomy for ILC 11/30 and just found out negative node - very relieved! I'm 57yrs - 1.8 cm and grade 2 with margins positive for atypical which I guess is fine as surgeon said no need for additional surgery. Next appt in 2 weeks with a radiation oncologist and should have oncotype tests back by then. Did you get 2 opinions regarding radiation. I'm near Boston so I have a few options which is great but all so confusing as it the docs make it sound like it is very routine. I dread the anti hormone after reading about side effects but so glad to hear you are hanging in! Any advice appreciated. Thanks so much!

May I ask what your "treatments" were? I had a lumpectomy for ILC 11/30 and just found out negative node - very relieved! I'm 57yrs - 1.8 cm and grade 2 with margins positive for atypical which I guess is fine as surgeon said no need for additional surgery. Next appt in 2 weeks with a radiation oncologist and should have oncotype tests back by then. Did you get 2 opinions regarding radiation. I'm near Boston so I have a few options which is great but all so confusing as it the docs make it sound like it is very routine. I dread the anti hormone after reading about side effects but so glad to hear you are hanging in! Any advice appreciated. Thanks so much!

This sure is a sneaky cancer! I also found what I thought was a lump, only to find out that the cancer was elsewhere in my breast and larger than I thought. I was fortunate in that I didn't have to wait for a mammogram, biopsy or diagnosis. I walked into the oncologists office blind. I knew nothing about the different types of cancer, how they are graded, what tests are done, and what test measured my possible outcome. I quickly learned! My suggestions on this journey are to rest when you need it, rely on others, eat well, and exercise when you can. I finished my last treatment 2 months ago and am bouncing back to my previous energy levels. Still nap occasionally though. Good luck and many prayers are going your way.

I have been diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Carcinoma (ILC) also found in Lymph nodes. I am seeking a second and possibly third opinion. If anyone has suggestions, I would appreciate the input.

Obviously MAYO is a consideration but I live in Michigan (MI). If anyone knows of any ILC specialists in the the MI area, I would appreciate the information.

I am willing to travel to get the best care, so please don't hold back on your recommendations.

Thank you and my best to all on their journey.

New to journey. 9.29.22 i went for annual mammogram. I have elected for 3d since it became available (about 5 yrs) as my grandmother passed from ovarian cancer.. because of her i fought for annual mammogram since I was 36. On 10.12 22 I was diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Carcinoma and Invasive Lobular Carcinoma in Situ in my right breast. I am 59 1/2 and post menopausal for 7 yrs. I had lumpectomy on 11.1.22 . The surgeon believes between needle byops and his magic that they got it all. Took 1st lymph and did not find spread. Now waiting for my 1st medical oncologist and 1st radiologist appt on 12.7 22 and 12.9.22 repetitively. I am worried about all of it. I have an extremely stressful job and am sole bread winner. On top of it, my significant is having heart issues (63 yrs old). How did any of you do during treatments keeping up with all the obligations in life? Am I freaking out for nothing? I could of retired 1.1.23, but not now. Cant afford it..oh yeah besides breast cancer..having to have all top teeth pulled (today) for dentures....just feel like the wheels are coming off the bus..

@crichey Hello - I am so sorry to hear that you have joined the ranks of having breast cancer. Hearing the news is devastating, to say the least. In regards to having to work through treatments, it is different for everyone. For me, I chose to continue to work through surgeries, chemo, and radiation. Did I have to take time off....yes. Did I have the support of my coworkers and family/friends? Absolutely! Radiation did not cause me any issues. The surgeries (lumpectomy, and subsequent surgery of needing clear margins and reduction/lift) were a little more difficult, but manageable. Chemo was a different story. I was able to schedule my infusions on Thursdays, which allowed me to recover Friday, over the weekend, and Monday. I would go back to work that Tuesday until the next infusion. By doing this, I took a few days off every three weeks to deal with chemo side effects and then "function" at work. It wasn't easy but I did what I had to do. Hopefully you have a job where you have some flexibility - maybe work from home some days? Don't be afraid to ask your coworkers/managers for what you need....at this point, your health takes priority. My advice, enlist the help of others to help with the other obligations in life....friends and family WANT to help. Tell them what you need and you'd be surprised how gladly they step up. I was working full-time, babysitting my grandchildren during weekends/later afternoons, and tending to other family obligations. The hardest part was telling my daughter I could no longer babysit because of how tired I was and not feeling well due to chemo. Also, chemo depletes the immune system, so being around my grandchildren was not safe. Honestly, I felt horrible that I was stepping back, but it was also a relief handing over some of life's obligations to others so that I could just focus on healing. I wish you well....take care of yourself - others are relying on you to take care of yourself now so you can be there for a long long time.

New to journey. 9.29.22 i went for annual mammogram. I have elected for 3d since it became available (about 5 yrs) as my grandmother passed from ovarian cancer.. because of her i fought for annual mammogram since I was 36. On 10.12 22 I was diagnosed with Invasive Lobular Carcinoma and Invasive Lobular Carcinoma in Situ in my right breast. I am 59 1/2 and post menopausal for 7 yrs. I had lumpectomy on 11.1.22 . The surgeon believes between needle byops and his magic that they got it all. Took 1st lymph and did not find spread. Now waiting for my 1st medical oncologist and 1st radiologist appt on 12.7 22 and 12.9.22 repetitively. I am worried about all of it. I have an extremely stressful job and am sole bread winner. On top of it, my significant is having heart issues (63 yrs old). How did any of you do during treatments keeping up with all the obligations in life? Am I freaking out for nothing? I could of retired 1.1.23, but not now. Cant afford it..oh yeah besides breast cancer..having to have all top teeth pulled (today) for dentures....just feel like the wheels are coming off the bus..