Endometrial Biopsy: I’m terrified, what can I expect?
Hi there, I have no bleeding but my endometrial thickness is a 6 and I have an endometrial biopsy scheduled in 30 days and I'm terrified. I made the mistake of reading all the horror stories on the internet. My doctor said it is painful and is preparing me by asking me to take VagiFem 10 for the next month and also to take advil before arriving. I've had pap smears all my life and they never hurt but my last one did. But I think that's because the doctor ( mine retired ) used a large instrument which hurt but then switched to a smaller one which was fine. It's a different doctor who will do the biopsy. I've had 2 transvaginal ultrasounds which didn't hurt and one hysterscopy which didn't hurt at all. But I'm terrified of the biopsy. My ultrasound showed a thickness of 6, nothing else, and my CT scan showed nothing. I wish my doctor hadn't told me it would hurt - when I said my last pap smear hurt, he said this would hurt more. He wasn't trying to be mean, just preparing me. I'm hoping I can do it. Any thoughts? And thanks for listening.
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@suesam Thank you for letting me know that my post spoke to you. I forgot that you are in Canada when I wrote the earlier post. Depending on your province and where you are located I've been informed here on Connect that getting tests done in a timely manner can be a difficult process. I'm so grateful that your doctor is advocating for you and that the insurance problems we encounter in the U.S. aren't a consideration for you. I lived in Québec some years ago and was a permanent resident. While I did not have any serious medical problems at the time my husband needed surgery and PT and we were very grateful for the medical care we both received in Montréal.
I'm wishing you a restful evening and good sleep tonight.
Wow, Helen, you are amazing. Yes, all your suggestions speak to me.
You're right, my anxiety and worry is pretty darn normal in these circumstances. I need to accept it. Having a biopsy is pretty scary.
I think it's a good idea for me to write out my worries. I am aware that it can be cancer, but also other things too. As my doctor says, 'It could be just the way I am.' I am also grateful my doctor is taking it seriously. He's a pretty great guy.
I live in Canada, so I don't need insurance for this test - so I am very grateful for this, that's for sure.
Thank you for taking the time to encourage me. I wish you all the best, too.
Hey Phoenix - wishing you all the best with your biopsy. I'll be thinking of you. 🙂
@suesam I understand the anxiety associated with that biopsy. I have been in similar situations with tests looming in the distance. I'm going to suggest what I do. It doesn't remove the worries that accompany anxiety but it can be calming in the moment.
1. I remind myself that my worries are normal under the circumstances. Do I like anxiety? No, not all. Can I accept the anxiety? Yes, that's what I tell myself. My anxiety is present for a reason. It got my attention and so now it's time to let it go at least momentarily until it arises again - and it does. The more I do this skill of reminding myself that my anxiety is normal under the circumstances the more "normal" I feel.
2. I write my worries into a notebook to "get them out there". I figure out which of these worries are rational under the circumstances and which might be irrational (catastrophic thinking). An example would be writing a worry that the biopsy will show I have cancer. That's the worst case scenario and is an example of catastrophic thinking. I can't possibly know that. What I can know is that the endometrial biopsy may show nothing or it may show something. What are the reasonable possibilities?
3. I write what I am grateful for. In this case it could be that I am grateful I have a doctor who is taking me seriously and is following up. I am grateful that I have the resources (insurance) to see a doctor for this test.
Do any of the suggestions I have made speak to you?
Hi there, I am the same. Scheduled for a biopsy Jan.23. Sounds like you are in good hands with your doctor.
Hello there,
I still find it hard to concentrate with this biopsy hanging over my head. It's not until Jan 20 and I keep trying to push it out of my mind. Guess I'm still in shock and I'm trying not let my mind run away and live in the present moment. My CT scan and Ultrasound showed nothing, except the ultrasound showed a thickness of 6. I was actually happy because my last one 6 months ago was a 7. I have no visible bleeding at all. I was sure my doctor was going to say, "Let's test again in 6 more months.' Anyhow, it set me off on a path of worrying, but I'm trying to not let it get to me. I am grateful that he's checking but scared. Thanks for listening.
Hello there,
Just want to thank everyone for your kind, thoughtful, sharing of your own experiences. This forum rocks. We all share the shock of finding out a diagnosis. I haven't gone that far yet, but was shocked that my doctor scheduled a biopsy. I had been at the ER and all my tests - CT and Ultrasound - were fine except for the 6 number given to my endometrial thickness. I have no bleeding. I do have lower abdominal pain that they can't find a reason for and my doctor thinks it might be IBS, since I've had this pain about 5 times in the last 10 years. I often go years with no pain, then it'll flare up a bit, then go away. So I was startled when he wanted to do a biopsy which sent my thoughts racing down another path. I feel better now. The biopsy isn't until Jan 20, so I'll know more as time goes on. Thanks for listening, for your encouragement, and for not trying to scare me with horrid stories which I ran into when I first started searching for support. Thank you for all your help. I'm switching into a calmer mode and trying not to jump ahead of myself. Hope everyone has a Merry Christmas. 🙂
Thanks, Gynosaur, I appreciate you taking the time to write what you did. You helped a lot with a lot of good advice. I like that my doctor is preparing me for the biopsy which actually isn't until Jan 20. I like all your deep breathing pointers too. I'll be reading over your comments several times, that's for sure. I'm glad my doctor is doing this. I have no bleeding, so I thought he'd wait but I'm glad he's not. Thank you so much for writing this. I really appreciate it enormously.
Thanks for sharing. I appreciate it. Hope you're okay now.
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