Emotions and anxiety with a cancer diagnosis: How do you cope?

Posted by glendafl @glendafl, Dec 8, 2023

My emotions and anxiety along with ADHD since the diagnosis of cancer is extremely high.
I’m finding it hard to keep up with day to day stuff, not to mention all the treatments, etc.
What or how do we cope? I’m so tired and I still got to face radiation treatments. I go to counseling weekly and I’m ok a good part of the time. But I’m having trouble staying focused and emotionally charged all the time. Any suggestions?

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You are doing a great job coping!!
We are your team and we are always with you, thinking about you , praying 🙏🏼 for Gods grace to keep you lifted up!!
If you can find something, place, or trip, lunch with a friend to focus on
It will help to keep you in the positive
Space it’s the day to day that can take joy out of a future!! You are strong and we are running this cancer race with you !!
Maura🎈👏👏👏

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All I would say about these drugs is to make sure they're not fighting with the effectiveness of any treatments you are having. Sometimes primary care physicians who prescribe these don't know the full story regarding this.

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I don't have cancer, but my husband has stage 4 esophageal cancer, and he takes B1 vitamin. Maybe try that and see if it helps with energy.

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I’ve had a Ct scan of my chest in January, compared to the one in September the doctor said one nodule has grown 2 mm. The 8 mm nodule which is the largest of the 5 is the same. My next scan is in May. These are not cancer.

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@lbrockme

What a journey you have had! I admire your determination and resilience!
You are a fighter!
Prayers for your next test!

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Do you have an update on your Scan yet? Hoping you are doing well!

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I found this site to be very helpful..
“ Living Beyond Breast Cancer”
https://www.lbbc.org/

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@glendafl

Wow you had some really good ideas. I like the one about the letter writing to and from the students. Thanks for sharing and caring. It helps to have support!!

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Oh, good! I was afraid I had said too much . . . I didn’t really want to add more to your plate. I’ve worked in the schools. Teaching is a knowledge sharing and caring field, which means everyone you know there wants to know more and is empathetic. But it does put a load on the receiver of all this. Sometimes you just want friends, want to discuss lighter topics, want distraction from cancer.

I was also hoping you knew that I meant write letters with the kids about common interests, not how you’re doing. As a teacher, you probably have favorite kids books, or science topics, or neighborhood legend to share. Maybe you’re the next Mr Beast 🙂

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@triciaot

Thank you for caring about the children! Take the time to care for yourself. Try to find a simple answer you can use over and over to minimize the emotional toil it must take to deal with everyone’s comments. Maybe: “when the doctors have found the right solution to the side effects I have, I’d love to come back. But I can’t give you an answer right now”.

If you miss the kids, think about writing letters back and forth. You know how much children like to have their letters answered. It might just warm your heart when you could use a little love, and the teachers would be thrilled that their students worked on their writing skills.

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Wow you had some really good ideas. I like the one about the letter writing to and from the students. Thanks for sharing and caring. It helps to have support!!

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I recently finished breast cancer treatment but then two months later my husband was diagnosed with throat cancer and started treatment last week. I have been researching sites to give us more information and help. I found the Mayo Clinic was using newer techniques that has provided better quality of life for throat cancer patients but his doctors declined to try the new procedures. Then I found this site for people experiencing cancer and their caregivers and have been reading posts for more information and understanding of possible things we can do to ease his pain and fatigue and loss of taste/appetite.

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@jmmg

So sad for your situation! I have been watching videos of people talking about near death experiences. This has helped me feel much more comfortable about leaving this world someday. Perhaps try that? I wish you the best in medical care and in finding peace in your soul.

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Welcome, @jmmg. Have you been diagnosed with cancer? I look forward to learning more about you.

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