Anything touches my back causes pain

I kept getting a dull ache feeling in my legs and when I feel it I can’t put pressure on my legs! While I was hospitals having my spine stimulator removed I noticed wearing a hospital gown I didn’t feel it. I put my sweats on and the pain came back. Anything touching about 2” above the but crack on either side causing test icles, anal , head of the penis, temple head aches and it all depends which side is being touched. So much for getting to sleep in a bed again 3 years In a recliner and would love to stretch out in a bed. Even during water therapy it hurt my back from the pressure!
My stimulator surgeon said he’s never heard of my symptoms in the 20 plus years he’s been doing surgery so he finally agreed to send me to another Neurologist to explain to me what’s going on !!!