Adenocarcinoma - just diagnosed
Hi - just diagnosed with Adenocarcinoma rectal cancer after colonoscopy. Will go for CT scan and MRI to determine next steps. Any advice? So scared.
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They usually wait several months before reversal. Then you must be prepared for possibly suffering from LARS. You can watch this for an explanation of what to expect after reconnection.
There is also a LARS FB group when the time comes.
And this site: https://livingwithlars.com/
It’s been six weeks since my LAR and then 3 weeks since I was admitted for small bowel obstruction. My surgeon follow up is in May 8. Hopefully I can get the stoma reversed. My pathology report showed no cancer in any lymph nodes so hopefully no chemo. I haven’t been contacted so far about that anyways. Fingers crossed. Then I’m worried about symptoms after reversal!!??
I had the LAR and have so temporary ileostomy too. A bit of a surprise but surgeon told me right before I was sedated. Stayed in hospital for day of surgery and 2 other nights. Came home in St Patrick’s Day. A lot to learn and high anxiety for sure. I’d sure like to know about underwear and something to hold bag in place instead of dangling around my leg? 3 weeks I should find out if I need chemo from pathology report. Did you have chemo??
You've got this!
I'm also a 65 year old Cdn female who had a LAR with temp ileostomy in March 2022. Do you know yet if you're having a temp ileostomy? Mine was a bit of a surprise........ Think loose clothing, getting up and around as soon as you can, and please consider having your husband help you as much as possible - it's helpful to be able to lean, AND it helps them be involved and improves their ability to empathize (in my experience.) Sending you good vibes! Please do let us know how you are doing and ask away with the questions xo
I’m always wore mine with a sweater, and sometimes with leggings👍
* I just realized this link doesn’t even go to PACT. That’s what I get for texting from work without my glasses!
Here’s their link. That dress may be last year’s and gone now, but they have very nice things.
https://wearpact.com/women
@lou3 Don't be afraid to share your feelings with us here, as your surgery gets closer and keep us posted afterwards as to how it went. I'll be thinking of you, hoping for the best outcome possible.
Big hug!
Awww thanks for that, you are very thoughtful. Yes I’ll check it out, I’m in Canada so it’s a bit to chilly now but good idea when it gets warmer here.
Lou, I forgot to add something that made a good difference to me. I went online and ordered a really pretty, loose, high waisted cotton dress (from Pact). I wore it home, and wore it to most of my chemo appts. It didn’t interfere with my ileostomy bad, and it made me feel good every time I put it on!!
I know you just have a few days., but maybe go online and check them out!
https://poshmark.com/listing/Pact-Revive-Pop-Over-Dress-Animal-Print-Organic-Cotton-Scoop-Neck-Cap-Sleeve-XS-65ad798bbd66cdce8f410dd9
Thank you so much !! I will definitely take paper and pen with me and continue to ask a million questions. I hope I am as brave as you!!!
Awww thank you so much with words of encouragement. I will use your ideas of packing my bag with extra things and journaling. I made an appointment with a social worker to start talking g one day before my surgery and maybe beyond.