Hi Ginny1000 - in bed resting after long few days of cancer twists & turns but lots of positive things so didn’t want to forget to reach out. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in my skin in mid 2019. Stage 4 by Oct 2019. Just came back over holidays for 3rd time. In various postings under my name you will find relevant details. The speed bumps are there. I have gotten over them through education, hard work, exercise, good nutrition, family, friends known & unknown, God, miracles, this website & luck. I have had many positives in my life since then & can honestly say my husband & I have made cancer a force of change in our lives. A health survey wanted me to rate my health - I would have said 90 out of 100 day in & out. The big C my life I try to keep to a small letter. Cancer is a big deal but so are many other things. I didn’t see your age, enough details about treatment, etc. Could be in there & missed it. You took some great first steps by educating yourself and then reaching out to this fabulous website. We are unknown friends to turn too. Good luck!!