Recurrent Breast cancer & bone metastasis: What questions to ask?

Posted by onnajd @onnajd, Mar 29, 2023

I will accompany my mom for the first time on her 8th chemo (out of 12 sessions). May you please advise what are the important and critical questions I should ask from his Oncologist? We don't know the chances of survival. The Oncologist has not discussed it to us. I was advised by my friend to check the Cost Benefit Ratio. I am too reluctant to ask this. Moreover too scared to know anything bad about my mom 😭.
Mom has a short temper and eating very less. What is the best food appetizing and healthy?

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@anjalima

St Barnabus RWJ IN Livingston NJ

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Ok thanks

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@shwetaaarya

I was recently diagnosed with recurrent breast cancer and bone metastasis. It's been tough dealing with the pain and uncertainty, but I'm grateful for my support system. Anyone have experience with this and can share advice? Trying to stay strong and positive through this journey.

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How are you doing?

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@cwilliane90

Hi Shirley
Where are you living??
I need a good oncologist who’s care for patient. I just diagnosed with stage 4 since December 20 and my oncologist don’t tell me anything. I’m trying to reach out to her she didn’t reply.

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Hi CW. Sorry about your diagnosis. I was dx in 9/21 with stage 4 mbc Mets to lymph and bones, skeleton. My TX is Verzenio, Anastrosole and Xgeva injections. I live in CT. The HartfordHealthCare cancer center is affiliated with Memorial Sloan Kettering hospital which is a leading cancer center. There are 3 satellite offices in NJ. Suggest that you check out their website. Staying local with friends and family support nearby would be my choice. They have a comprehensive breast cancer program. Best wishes .❤️

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