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Thank you so much for your post about your dogs. I am actually right now, looking at a puppy that I really would love to own. It’s funny that I stumbled upon your post, because I’m so conflicted about it right now. I have applied for the puppy. But I’m scared, because with my depression I’m just worried honestly about taking the puppy out for walks and stuff. Making sure that the puppy gets all of the outdoor time that it needs. Because I can get very depressed to the point where I don’t move for a long time. But, on the other hand, I’m very isolated and thought that this little puppy might just be my salvation and my new little best friend. I’m just so confused on what I should do…anyone have any ideas? Lol
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I am 76, widowed 13 years, live alone, not comfortable socializing. I know that having a good circle of friends, etc., would help but I am not unhappy I do feel some of the joy in my life has vanished in the past several years and all I can do for enjoyment is care for my feral mom cat and her son & daughter. I feel bad I am physically unable to play with them as much as I would like. I feel at times that I shouldn’t have them. However, the feeding, making sure they always have water and clean litter boxes. Sometimes I am exhausted also. They are real good cats, about 2 years old now. However, I don’t feel like I could handle all that goes with a dog. For the same reasons as you. I have always had cats. I like dogs but my life has not been very stable and I can provide a litter box for a cat but not for a dog.
If you want a dog and have days you aren’t up to walking it, etc., perhaps you could line up a dog walker, and maybe that person could help you with your baby those times you just can’t do it.
I totally understand. I didn’t expect to have 3 little cats after all the others had passed away but, somehow, the word must be on the streets that I am a softie, lol! I hope this helps a little. An animal helps A WHOLE LOT MORE.
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Sharon
I can certainly understand your hesitation. I get the same deep depression where I don’t want to leave the house, plus I’m a loner by nature. Actually a long walk usually helps my mood. And I’ve made some casual friends at my local dog park.
I even go as far to beat myself up over the fact that I’m being unfair to my dog by being depressed. She’s really sensitive, and picks up on my mood.
Have you considered a cat? They aren’t as demanding. A dog is more like having a toddler!
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I have many health issues and I have found over the last several years there is no better benefit better than loving and caring for a dog! Or cat probably. The joy they bring into your life is amazing and worth every moment! They also take the focus of yourself and your health and while they might not take your health problems away, they are amazing to brighten your life and heart and take your thoughts off of yourself. They so brighten every day! So sorry for my poorly written response. But my Dog gives me so much joy every day.