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@merpreb

Traveling with others can certainly be a challenge! You sound like a different person, and boy, am I glad of it. You've done more than I have! I almost traveled to another state, but I never made it!

I can understand your anger! I have flashes of it. And since no marriage is perfect, there are leftover resentments too.

At 89 you are permitted to live the way you want, but do make future plans with your friend. Being alone is no fun. Do you do things with her from town?

Merry

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Actually there are three of us who try to lunch every now and then. The third member is married but unfortunately her husband is suffering from dementia so she cannot travel. As I said we try and get together for lunch. My other friend, with whom I am going on a cruise, has a gentleman friend, and a lot of her time is spent on doing things with him. She is 10 years younger than I am. Another man in my life is definitely something I am not looking for. On the cruise my main focus will be to enjoy the week without having to do the daily chores and chatting with new people.
I am starting physical therapy on my shoulder. It will be twice a week. I just finished making the appointments. So until the end of February my life will be filled with various medical appointments.