@hellab Ouch, what a way to get through each day. Actually, not getting through very comfortably, right?!
Has your husband taken a look at what his meds and supplements are? His electrolytes may be out of balance, likewise high levels of calcium, phosphorous, etc. From the National Kidney Foundation, here is a very informative article that will probably answer many of your questions: https://www.kidney.org/atoz/content/chronic-kidney-disease-associated-pruritus-itchy-skin#:~:text=CKD%2DaP%20is%20very%20itchy,has%20been%20associated%20with%20itching.
What stage is your husband in for chronic kidney disease? I am on daily dialysis, and some days experience the itching you talk about. I tend to go to a more conservative resolution, looking at my labs to see if something is amiss, checking my diet, using rich creams, even a shower gel like Neutrogena Rainbath rather than soap. Often it is a trial-and-error, because sometimes one thing works, another time it is something else. I don't want to add any medications to me laundry list of prescriptions, so I steer clear from steroids.
And, it will never hurt to ask a dermatologist for their input, after explaining the situation! Good luck and let me know what you decide to do/find out!
Ginger
Thank you for answering so quickly, Ginger. My husband is stage 4. He has tried all the lotions and creams, including the one his dermatologist recommended as well as the antihistamine frequently prescribed. He is now using a CBD capsaicin cream with very limited success. We are both so excited about your suggestion to turn to the kidney foundation. Thank you so much for the link. It feels good not to be alone in this.