Update:
My husband had cataract surgery on Nov. 15. His cataract was severe, dense, the doctor said, so it took longer than usual to extract it. He became agitated during surgery and I was called into the OR to calm him. He was given some extra sedation.
After the surgery he acted as if nothing happened. He was bright and alert and could see well almost immediately.
On the day of surgery, I was told he had to return in three months for lens polishing that would cost $1285.00. (I paid cash for the surgery as our HMO wouldn't authorize a procedure performed locally with a doctor not in their network.)
Long story short:
We got through the drops. It was a struggle to get him not to blink. His vision is now 20/20. He's more sociable and engaged. Since the surgery I've had a friend over twice, and rather than retreating to the bedroom and resenting her presence as he used to do, he's stayed with us and engaged in conversation.
After researching it, and speaking with another doctor, I cancelled the Yag Laser Capsulotomy (lens polishing). It is recommended when a patient develops a secondary cataract, cloudiness after surgery, or loses visual acuity. My husband has no symptoms. The procedure can always be done if symptoms develop.
My husband is delighted with the gift of new sight and I'm relieved and pleased that it went so well and this is behind us.
Thank you everyone for your support, and
Best wishes for a Happy New Year!