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@sam60

Hello to all you AUS guys😊. It will be 2 years for me in April. Before the device I used to say, I had no continents, because I literally peed constantly no impulse from my brain because my bladder never filled. Needless to say I look at my artificial sphincter as the greatest thing for my quality of life I am 72 with late stage cancer. As said, by previous responders, there’s a learning curve for use. I live in Florida, so where elastic shorts most of the year and can easily pull down to activate at a urinal. One of my biggest problems has been because of my five years on ADT and Zitega my penis is in hiding most of the time, and if I don’t find it first, and pull it out, no telling where I will be peeing 🤪 using emojis because I feel I have to keep my humor dealing with all of this. I like my guy friends to know what I am going through so that they believe me when I say keep checking for prostate cancer I find most guys don’t like talking about it with me, but I am very fortunate that I have two very close friends that have help me tremendously with my cancer journey being that they have stayed informed about what I am going through. Never looking for sympathy, but just a good ear Golf with these guys and still can’t get any strokes. 🥲🥴.
One more thing a few times I have had a complete emptying without activating the device both times I was sitting and then stood up. Talk to Dr and said they have been cases like this. Not sure but think that maybe the way I was sitting, I activated when I stood up.
Happy New Year to everyone 🎆🎇

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Good morning sam60. I agree... what penis. I better find it and get it out and hope to hit the toilet. Had many messes at first. And yes to pull pants all the way down or soak underwear. Happy New Year.

Sam60 I agree that my late age golf and pickleball friends are very reluctant to talk about my prostatectomy and resultant incontinence. I try to keep the mood light by telling new guys at pickleball they either have to wear a leg brace or Depends to join the group but no one wants to hear what this life is truly like. Even my Pelvic Floor PT was surprised when during an exercise this week I told her I was leaking. I am eleven months out from my surgery and will not contemplate a surgical resolution to incontinence quite yet. But thanks for telling us some real stories about your journey.