You will hear a lot of us say that the beginning was the worse. Add to that the trials of finding the right drug it can seem overwhelming (because it is).
Although you are brand new to this world of R.A., you have begun, and have your diagnosis! You, your doctor and Pharmacist will navigate through to the right drugs.
It seems the big problem right now is the extra challenge of Christmas coming. It is true that your RA is not going to disappear in the next 5 days, so talk to your family now, regarding plans for Christmas. Explain your present 'organizational challenges' and ask
for their suggestions and help. This is the time to strip away all the extras and non-essentials, and focus on what /who is important.
You can think of this as their first educational opportunity as you all face this new world of arthritis.
Whatever conclusions you come to, I hope you are able to take in some good moments together.
Merry Christmas!