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Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Dec 20, 2023 | Replies (5)Comment receiving replies
in reply to @becsbuddy She does not know yet, but her sister does. Admittedly, I am a bit concerned because as far as I know there is no plan. I will continue doing what I have been doing until the end of the year, and then slowly transition away. This situation is so sad beyond belief, as my friend is always calling me, asking me to spend the night, and if I am too sick to eat dinner, she refuses to eat. I would not be surprised if she starves herself to death, and in all honesty, this would not necessarily be a bad thing at this point
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@frran007. You might also notify the office for at risk elders. I think you can call the non-emergency police number to get the seniors at risk number.
This is a very , very sad situation. You have gone above and beyond, Fran. Don’t beat yourself up over the “what might happen if I leave” possibilities. When you are ready to leave, say something like “I’m going to leave now and you sister will be checking on you. Maybe I can visit sometimes.” You will need to be firm but kind.
Will you practice this at home a few times? It will make you stronger!