Hi @maryny23!
The diagnosis of cancer rots! It’s hard to know what to do next and if you are proactive enough, however, I think you are on the right path by looking for second opinions and looking for a support system to help navigate the low points of coping. Although White Plains might be too far to go to Gilda’s Club, I checked their website (https://cancersupportcommunitynyct.org/ ) and they seem to offer a lot of assistance that might be helpful . I have a theory that people and places that deal with cancer, know other people and places that deal with cancer too…they might know of some resources in your area! I hope you enjoy today.