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Do You Live in "Shunland"?

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Dec 19, 2023 | Replies (20)

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@jgail777

I am very sorry about your husband. I'm sure that if your husband could have stayed Tobe with you and if he could have been healthy, he would have stayed. Don't be angry at him.. be angry at what he didn't have a chance to change.
I have an amazing man as my husband. I thank God every day for that . But I have
had a lot of grief in my life and I can't seem to work through my grief.
Oh, I would love to go out to lunch. My best friend of over 50 years was diagnosed with alzheimer s last May. She doesn't know me now.
Lunch with a girl friend would be lovely.
Please take care of yourself. This time of the year is not easy for a lot of us.
Thank you for replying to me.

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The reason I am angry is because my husband was not dying. He was stubborn. He had Parkinson's. However it was under control. We had a very good neurologist. I took him to see her every three months and he got a thorough examination. I always made sure he got his medications in a timely fashion. But the problem was that he had to get up during the night to go to the bathroom. He was unsteady on his feet. Twice he fell. I borrowed a walker. I begged him to use the walker to walk the few feet to the bathroom. He refused and said he could do it himself. The third time he fell he broke his femur and was dead in three months. He did not have to die at that time. All he had to do was use the walker to help him to the bathroom. So, yes, I am angry.