Thanks for all your suggestions, I really appreciate the help. For years not just me but my family thought it was in my mind and I was all alone. Now I know that I'm not and there are people who have the same type of issues. Luckily I just looked in my closet and found 4 pairs of compression shorts, 2 from vanity fair and 2 from jockey. Now, I just need to find bras and some underwear that won't irritate the sides next to my sides.