We avoided an evaluation, thinking it’s all “normal aging” until we could not deny that things were more and more off-anxiety w driving, leaving a meeting w our financial advisor or CPA and my husband not able to recall what was discussed- I took notes. Also spacial recognition - inability to help hang a mirror- my 92 year old neighbor helped hang it in a few minutes. I made appts for a Neuropsych eval but his PCP wanted him to see a geriatrician, sleep specialist and have cardiology exams. The latest MRI did show micro vascular changes.
So we went to the geriatrician. After 3 hours of interviews and testing w the social worker, the Dr. confirmed Mild Cognitive Impairment- not dementia yet- and since has ordered a speech therapist twice a week for cognitive development. My husband also had to have an extensive drivers test w an occupational therapist.
We also worked with two neuropsychologists.
It was a difficult year. Denial, anger, confusion and finally acceptance and moving forward. Traveling as much as time allows with time left to enjoy each other.
I have taken over all the finances and home management and planning.
Also all of these evaluations were covered by Medicare and our supplementary insurance because we have a documented diagnosis and plan.
Very important is to determine who you are seeing for the eval and who you will be following up with. Our doc was realistic but gentle and helpful.