Marilyn, I so understand and agree with you. So sorry about your husband. I believe many have experienced the “horrors” from facilities, hospitals and or home care.

Your letter needs to be read by anyone considered a rest home. I don’t want to be negative, but here are a few more “horrors” I experienced from my husband being in rehab/rest home and hiring the wrong people as caregivers (CG).
1) found CG in room with my husband asleep giving herself a pedicure with her feet soaking in his bed bath
tubs.
2) CG meeting maintenance man in next door room.
3) Doctor never visible
4) Nurses meeting at their desks while patients waiting
5) Husband’s clothes sent to laundry but never returned. They were “lost.”
6) CG makes mistakes on prescriptions.
7) Speech therapist feeds husband wrong food he could not swallow. Later he was hospitalized for pulmonary pneumonia. Fox went to lungs. It took 16 people to revive him in ER.
8) CG sleeping in room.
9) CG smoking in restroom.
10) CG asked us for a “loan.”
These are only s few …