James, as a new member, you'll be able to send a private message in a few days. We restrict private messaging to new members to prevent spammers from spamming the community. You can however receive private messages. @bens1, can send you one to get the private conversation started.

I would remiss if I didn't say, that by sharing on the forum, your messages benefit many, including current and future men diagnosed with prostate cancer. 🙂