We’ve experienced this for about 6 months after the diagnosis and starting Lupron & Xtandi. We’ve been married 53 years and the light went out of his eyes for life. He didn’t show any affection, refused to talk about anything, even researching other options.
I started researching and followed this group for suggestions, especially for help with side effects which were horrible. I finally said I’m not going to go on living like your dying. We need to get on with our life as best as we can. We traveled the country and have bought a house in a place that we both love. No more wasted days😊