thank you so much for your words of encouragement, we do have an excellent place where she is getting treated it's mayo clinic in Rochester, very nice people doctors and nurses, to all the staff, we are always treated great from the time we walk in the door. even security are extremely pleasant, just hope we can get all this sorted out with her doctor , we have a couple appointments on the 7th and 8th one of those being the 2nd treatment if she decides to go through with it , I have noticed on here that it seems like everyone on here has at least 2 years since being diagnosed,which is also encouraging because we thought she only had 6-9 months (median survival average) thank you for chatting with me and keep up the fight!