After having four large surgeries in three years I still find it difficult to accept help from anyone other than my immediate family. I think most people don't want to hear about health issues because it depresses them without even realizing they're giving off that vibe. I find it best to remain positive and do what I can. As far as not accomplishing as much as I would like to I have to accept it. I try to make the best of it, after all what other choice do we have-lol! Wish you all the best!!! 🌺