Naomi, have you been tested for hyperparathyroidism. Your symptoms, including bone loss, align with the possibility of that there may be trouble with one of your parathyroid glands. taking Forteo or Tymlos would aggravate the condition.
https://www.parathyroid.com/diagnosis.htm#:~:text=Most%20doctors%20are%20not%20very,calcium%20level%20was%20too%20high.
It is worse than sad that you don't have support at home.
If you can't talk to him, don't listen either.