You sound like a remarkable person, @seniorladyincanada. Congratulations on your full life. It is understandable that you need some companionship. We all need that, no matter our age or station in life.

While you still seem to be quite independent, you do not mention if you still drive. If you do, have you considered looking for a group you could join at a senior center or at the local library. I really enjoy reading and I belong to two book discussion clubs. I love to listen to the insights and thoughts of others as we all have read the same book.

What other interests do you have that might lead to interaction with others or social groups?

I think u r doing great. I am on utube and look up all sorts pf subjects. Other than reaching out continuously to meet others, I have increased

@seniorladyincanada - you're my type of gal. I'm 79 and have one daughter and two young grandsons. I live alone, but have an active life, both online and on real life. But I'm also alone a fair bit. I hear you loud and clear about not wanting to be a burden. To me, you sound contented, but perhaps just a little help wouldn't hurt. If you have a seniors center nearby, what about once or twice a week for an hour or so? It'll be a little boost. But all in all, you're inspiring to me.

@seniorladyincanada Wow! I am 85 and although not being as active as I once was, especially with the fun things to do (kayaking, biking, gardening). I never was a 'socialite' but over the years with loss of long time friends I've started to attend senior events that are interesting to me, and found there are many around like us - looking for companionship, even if it is done over the phone is helpful too.. I have a small circle of family (niece, 3 nephews) and they are generous with helping me financially but when it comes to having help I have to appeal to neighbors and a few friends that I have made. Go get 'em, lady 🙂