"Living a Healthy Life with Chronic Conditions" by Lorig, Laurent, Sobek, et.al. has a lot of practical advice. The main theme is effective self-management. I think you can get it from bullpub.com, 800-676-2855. I encountered this book via a class sponsored by a local hospital.

You could try my own book "How to Survive Cancer, and How to Live". The first part is about what happened, presented with the purpose of being useful to other people by providing Lessons Learned. The Lessons Learned are also in an appendix, so you can skip the emotional, possibly distressing part and get right to the conclusions, but the main text provides more context. The second part is some philosophical musings about how to live. I have been influenced by both Buddhist philosophy and the ancient Stoics.
(I don't think much of the modern, pop-culture Stoics.)