I am sorry, but are you kidding me? "remodel his place get him a bigger tv furniture more bright colors of clothing like white color his walls white or off white open his windows take him on cruise or just anywhere new get him out", "screaming at him and warning him of if he doesn’t change you will leave him "???? Buy him something? Take him on a cruise? Scream at him? Threaten him? I probably shouldn't even respond, but I don't want anyone to take your advice seriously. Trust me, as a person with a depresson disorder, and a person with her own mind, these are not valid ways to deal with anyone who is suffering depression. I'm sorry, I just had to say it.
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