Hello, my name is Marcia and I am 66 years old. I am facing the possibility of spinal fusion surgery because I have chronic pain and stiffness. My previous MRI of a few years ago showed spinal stenosis and spondylolisthesis. Another MRI scheduled for Jan 17 because I am getting progressively worse and have been told that I am a candidate for surgery. I am a caregiver for my husband who just went through a year of hell with CHF, defibrillator/pacemaker implant, and three surgeries for bladder cancer, and subsequent chemo. I'm just not sure what to do about surgery for myself, given his weakened condition and high anxiety. I know that assisting him with bathing and dressing, etc., does not help my back, nor does cleaning the house or even walking through a grocery store. Does anyone have any suggestions? I fear losing more mobility permanently.