Connect
← Return to What a depressed person expect from his girlfriend
Discussion
What a depressed person expect from his girlfriend
Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Nov 2, 2023 | Replies (22)Comment receiving replies
That person loves you more then anything else when you don’t text him he assumes you’re seeing someone else or you are pre occupied with other things that’s more important then him he for some reason doesn’t like the situation he got himself with you there are all this negativity going on in one person’s way of thinking especially if he is on depression medication and if you love him and would like to see him come out of his depression change things around remodel his place get him a bigger tv furniture more bright colors of clothing like white color his walls white or off white open his windows take him on cruise or just anywhere new get him out
To a newer neighborhood or some where new change his life around show him you really love him and if he has lost family members snap him out of it by screaming at him and warning him of if he doesn’t change you will leave him but don’t ever leave him he loves you a lot i am saying this couse i am in the same situation and I hope it will work out for you and him
Replies to "That person loves you more then anything else when you don’t text him he assumes you’re..."
I am sorry, but are you kidding me? "remodel his place get him a bigger tv furniture more bright colors of clothing like white color his walls white or off white open his windows take him on cruise or just anywhere new get him out", "screaming at him and warning him of if he doesn’t change you will leave him "???? Buy him something? Take him on a cruise? Scream at him? Threaten him? I probably shouldn't even respond, but I don't want anyone to take your advice seriously. Trust me, as a person with a depresson disorder, and a person with her own mind, these are not valid ways to deal with anyone who is suffering depression. I'm sorry, I just had to say it.
P
@tarinmo, I'm echoing the other commenter who took issue with your "remodel his place, take him on a cruise" post. This is nonsensical, and if my bluntness offends you, I apologize -- but you're causing harm by posting nonsense.
There's a difference between being blue / down in the dumps (because life is difficult, or because one is grieving a loss) and being depressed. Depression is deeply rooted, and IT WILL NOT RESPOND to superficial changes like that!
For your own sake, please read some articles on the Psychology Today website about depression vs. the blues (the PT website is free and is written for laypersons). And please either refrain from posting "solutions" that aren't solutions, or at the very least preface them by saying "This worked for me when I was down in the dumps; I don't know whether I was technically depressed."
Finally, if you plan to continue posting, then please use commas and periods, and please insert paragraph breaks -- please use the long-established conventions that help readers understand a long block of prose.
Connect
Unfortunately he is not giving me the chance to be around him he doesn't answer my phone calls and refuse to see me even when I pass by his house he denies himself .now we only text