I’d say so, yes. Although it was already extreme prior to that, that relationship seems to be what really pushed her over. She has been in trauma processing therapy for some time. Let me clarify, that this relationship and its demise, for a “normal” brain and mental state would not have wreaked this kind of havoc.
I’m feeling kind of uncomfortable now that I have thrown so much of this highly personal info out on a public forum. I’m not sure that was appropriate although I’d like to continue our conversation in a more private setting! I do very much appreciate your interest.