Everyone responds differently, but I was confirmed Stage-4 last January, and have spent the last 8 months quite healthy (except for baldness, fatigue, and neuropathy) on Gem/Abrax/Cis. I'm very fortunate so far my only ill effects are from the chemo and not from the cancer, but I'll take that any day!

I've heard this regimen often becomes intolerable or ineffective after 6-9 months. I'm about to have my 19th biweekly treatment, but another member posted here not too long ago about doing well after #33 and counting.

There is a lot of hope for longevity if the right things go well, and pre-planning the next treatment option if they don't. A lot of that depends on things like genetic mutations she might have. For example, with the ATM mutation, it made sense for my oncologist to add cisplatin to the Gem/Abrax. I'm looking at every clinical trial possible for when/if this runs out of gas for me.

Make sure to ask the oncologists about the options and next steps when they go over the scan results with you tomorrow.

Best wishes to you both!