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Overthinking and living in fear

Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Oct 28, 2023 | Replies (62)

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@desidawn and the others whom have responded….

I’m going to share some of my personal story in order to really help you get out of the place of worry.

I was a 100% healthy and young at 37 yrs old. I did not know what anxiety was/meant or how it expressed itself in the body.

I made a simple doctor appt for a simple thing that I shouldn’t have.
This doctor ran tests that I didn’t need, prescribed meds that I did not need and caused harm based off of giving me a catastrophic presentation of what “could be” a problem. This cycle of worry that was created in the environment of medical doctors that are meant to be of service and help, caused me harm which I have now been taking care of since that doctor visit.

I can tell you from start to finish this was all based off of “worry”. I made an initial appointment based off “small worry”. The doctor I met with, rather than calm my unnecessary worry, perpetuated it and kept me in a repeating cycle that grew. While I was in the middle of it, all I was focused on was my health, so I had the inability to feel that it was my worrying causing me additional symptoms.

What I have now learned is that worrying can literally make you sick. It is the brains way of thinking it is keeping us safe. And it is not. Every thought becomes a feeling.

If you can meet with someone whom can explain this to you in person and start to get you on the path of new healthy thought patterns, you will realize it.

I only came to this forum after this bad encounter with a medical doctor and western medicine. And all started by one worried thought that would’ve been nothing had I not acted on it.

So please get out, get fresh air, look at nature and how beautiful it is. Seek out things that make you laugh. Create something. Draw something.

Health forums can be a place of reassurance to not feel alone, but they can also cross over into a place of worry perpetuating worry.

Don’t stay too long on a health forum. Get out and live!!!!

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Replies to "@desidawn and the others whom have responded…. I’m going to share some of my personal story..."

Thank you. I am sick and sometimes I feel dismissed that it is all “emotional and in my head”. No, not true.

However, I do agree with you that obsessing only makes everything worse. I am planning to see a phycologist. In my area it is hard to get an appointment.

Thank you for your response. I also suffer from anxiety, fear and worry about my own health issues. I realize that the mind is a powerful thing and once I start obsessing about something, things can start to spiral out of control and then I need to remind myself that I'm creating unnecessary stress for myself. I find myself worrying about upcoming doctor appointments. I will at times recite the "Serenity Prayer" to help get myself out of my own head. I live alone and have joined a Senior Center and that has helped a bit. Being around people and trying to find enjoyment in Life is key to relieving negative thought patterns. It's also helpful to know that I'm not loosing my mind and that others actually experience these same feelings.
Thanks to all of you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
My heart goes out to all of you and enclosed is a big hug.....let's try to enjoy Life!!!

I second every single word.