I live in a co-housing community. I like the neighborliness and like, also, the challenge of working with others to solve "issues" that arise. Its not for everyone though because it requires participation with upkeep and with administration of the HOA. That said, I'm here with my husband because we wanted to live in proximity to kids & grandkids, good medical facilities, convenient to shopping and outdoor recreation. If I could fantasize I would live on the Pacific Ocean because I love the NW of the US; but it isn't achievable at my age in in my state of health. Hard decisions had to be made and I wish you all the best in arriving at your decision.