After lots of back and forth on options ny husband elected for robot assisted prostatectomy done mid June at Mayo Rochester. Post surg pathology was all great news. Recovery has been good regarding incontinence. We think he's had very little issue because he's done exercises for years for low back pain. These basically strengthen his core and pelvic area and are similar to kegels. Normal peeing, up maybe once at night. Wears a thin pad daily for reassurance but is usually dry. Carries cough drops in his pocket as that is the one trouble trigger. The 3 month PSA was another piece of good news at less than .10, basically non-existent. Best of luck to all you guys. This has been a tough journey. We are feeling so grateful for answered prayers and so much loving support.