Plentiful advice here both direct and unbridled and much empathetic and loving. Take your time, breathe, pray. Listen to your healthcare providers .. they are the experts, yet many of us have gone through and survived the lymph node dissections and TORS robotic surgeries, feeding tubes, sleepless nights, weight loss and inability to tolerate food or even swallowing. Walk on friend, listen to the counsel and instruction of your oncology physicians. You can do this. Many of us here had fears and doubt approaching this head and neck cancer (P16+ SCC) for the first time. It's OK and completely normal to feel your fears. We can be a safe place to Vent and lean into emotional support 🩵 and your Doctors, Nurses and healthcare professionals shall be the ones to give you Medical advice. Praying for you on the beginning of what feels like a dark journey, You Can Do This. Walk on through it, Prayer and Divine spirit will see you through. Best to you,