Sorry to hear you are going through so much. I also had (have) vocal cord paralysis. I received an injection to plumb to the vocal cord so it reached the midline and allow the functioning thyroid to meet it allowing me to talk. I am about 10 weeks post surgery. I just went to the ENT and it doesn’t show any signs of healing so I may continue the injections every 9-12 months or get an implant in my vocal cord for a more permanent fix. Has your dr presented you with any of those options?