I also did not pass the balloon manometry test. I probably saw at least five doctors that insisted I had dysergenic defecation though I repeatedly told them I had no trouble pushing out stool. I would get super anxious doing the manometries and even the rectal exams. When they would give those commands to “push, relax, squeeze”, I just couldn’t do it. I needed more time to relax and be able to isolate the muscles. I still don’t squeeze well, but with PFT have started to relax. It’s all about finding the right doctor who will take the time to listen and do the exam correctly and not just go by what your other drs have said. Advocate for yourself!